Silencing the Mind: Taming Late-Night Brain Chatter for Better Sleep

Have you experienced having a busy day of running around, feeling tired at night, and looking forward to sleeping…and then your mind starts? The minute your head hits the pillow, your brain gets going. Perhaps you’re worried about an upcoming event, wondering how you’ll manage the rest of the week, or suddenly remembered something you meant to do during the day. Whatever the thoughts are, they’re keeping you awake, and it’s an uneasy feeling that can lead to worries about being unable to sleep.

Dr. Margarita Cossuto, post-doctoral fellow at CBT Westport, explains that often when we are busy running around during the day we don’t have time to process and problem-solve worries. Usually, Dr. Cossuto elucidates, the only moments we have that are quiet enough to hear our thoughts are when we lie down to sleep. So naturally, thoughts from the day start flooding in. You are not alone in experiencing this busy brain phenomenon. There is no doubt that thoughts, worries, and planning for the next day can keep you awake and restless at night.

Thankfully, there are several strategies you can try to help quiet your brain so you get the much-needed rest that you need.

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Worried About Your Health? CBT Can Help.

Health anxiety, also known as illness anxiety disorder or hypochondriasis, is a mental health condition characterized by excessive worry and fear about having a serious medical illness. Individuals with health anxiety often find themselves preoccupied with the possibility of being sick, experiencing distressing physical symptoms, and seeking frequent reassurance from healthcare professionals. This condition can be highly debilitating, affecting one’s quality of life, relationships, and overall well-being. However, there is hope for those struggling with health anxiety through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).

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Teens Under Pressure

“Just try it, everyone does it, it’s not even that bad.”
“Hurry up and just take it, no one is looking.”
“She’s such a prude, don’t even try getting to know her.”
“That new kid is a loser, no one likes him.”

The pressure to fit in, to be liked and respected, and to be accepted by peers is a very normal human experience.  While much of the pressure our children and teens face is explicit (like the examples above), they can also feel pressure by just watching or knowing that peers are engaging in behaviors that they are not. For example, knowing that all their friends have snapchat and they are not yet allowed to download that app can feel like pressure to a teen.

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Faults in Our Stars: Developing a Flexible Mindset for Ourselves and Our Children

One of our main objectives at CBT Westport is working together with kids and their parents to achieve a growth and flexible mindset.  As part of this objective, we practice taking risks and learning how to tolerate mistakes.

Professor Thomas Curran, an Assistant Professor of psychological and Behavioral Sciences at the London School of Economics, views perfectionism as a relational trait rather than an individual trait.  This makes sense when we are treating children and adolescents who oftentimes look to their environment (home, school, sports team, parent/coach/teacher) as a conduit to his/her/their perfectionism.

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Are you Angry? Or Anxious?

Anxiety and anger are two distinct emotions that provide us information about ourselves and our environment. While they are different, there are several ways that they can interact.

Anxiety is the worry or fear that is felt in response to a perceived threat. The hallmark symptoms are: bodily tension, worried thoughts, and physical changes. Anxiety is often in response to feeling out of control. While too much anxiety can be paralyzing, studies show that mild to moderate anxiety can sometimes serve as a catalyst for making a change or getting things done.

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